THE GAME

The Game

This book was an insightful, raw transparency look into the life of how many young men attempt to go from insecure and afraid of women to building up some mask of confidence by creating an alter ego.

It's the reality for a lot of men, but it's not a very productive way to go about building the foundations of a healthy relationship, as even the author will admit towards the end . . . once he found a woman he was truly falling in love with he suddenly realized all the pick up games he learned never taught him how to sustain a long-term serious relationship with a woman he wanted to be with for the long term . . . nor did it teach him to be comfortable just being his authentic self when he was with her, nearly costing him the opportunity to be with her at all.

The main takeaway men should learn from such stories is that it's always best to do things the right way the first time around.

When it comes to approaching women, dating women, seeking long term relationships with women you need to first focus on the man you are now and the man you seek to become.

What type of man are you asking a woman to be in a relationship with?

A man who doesn't like himself and must wear masks?

A man who struggles with insecurities and needs sex for external validation?

A man who hasn't found his sense of purpose or passion for living and just complains about not having the life he wants while never doing anything to obtain it?

If you aren't happy with yourself and your life when you're single, a relationship with a woman is never going to fix that. No matter how great and loving she is, ultimately, only you can do the work to be happy with the man you see in the mirror.

If you're paying attention as you read this book you'll notice several instances where the author seems conflicted. At times he's using PUA manipulation to "give women the sexual fantasies they've always dreamed of" while other times he's questioning his methods and feeling terrible about what he's doing.

He has several interventions with other men telling him it's wrong to mistreat women and use them as sex objects. He only stops once he finds a woman he really likes and wants to like him back.

As I always say, the habits and lifestyle you develop are not light switches you simply flip off or on.

You cannot view women with distain, misogyny, as a game or challenge to be conquered and expect to have good results in a intimate relationship with her.

The foundations of a healthy relationship require both man and women to be secure in their identities and how they show up in life and in the world. It requires you both to have a healthy sense of self-love and respect to not tolerate "negging" or manipulative behaviors.

It must be built on a foundation of transparency, genuine curiosity to understand and explore a human connection. It requires consistency and being vulnerable.

All things that don't exist in the pick-up artist world when you don a new persona to seek validation from multiple strangers whom you don't intend to build anything serious with.

There is an alternative to using manipulation or masking to attract and build relationships with women.

But it first requires you to do the work on yourself to be a viable partner in relationships.

You cannot show up unprepared or "broken" and place the burden for your healing and growth on your partner. That's the fastest way to burn bridges.

If you're ready to learn how to build real connections with women without wasting time trying a host of unproductive methods that will only leave you scarred and developing bad habits, I invite you to learn more about the information I'm sharing freely using the link below.

You can experience confidence and healthy relationships with women.

You just need to start with yourself and with the right information, which you can find here and via my social media.

Visit https://www.innersovereignman.com/home to order your FREE book and start learning how to connect with your SELF so that you build the right foundation for connecting with women for healthy relationship.

In Sovereignty,

Mel